The MSFN café - A Penny for Your Thoughts

[UCyborg]

On 2/12/2023 at 11:06 PM, mina7601 said:

I wish that person becomes sociable a lot once again. Ever since he replies in the Web Browsers forum and he stopped replying in General Discussion and Funny Farm forum anymore.

23 hours ago, XPerceniol said:

@mina7601 and @UCyborg and @legacyfan I do understand as you (should see in this thread and his introduction thread I tried to bring back DigiDave as I also miss our deep conversations we would chat do deeply about his family and wife and so deep others couldn't keep up, but I guess its just history.

I guess sometimes something just snaps in one's mind and then things are never the same again.

22 hours ago, XPerceniol said:

I was always a loner like my dearly departed father was and I am unapproachable and stay to myself and stay quiet. I could never every trust another person to be alone with.

I also avoid sodial media and at one time was one dating sites and not even looking for a hook-up so go figure that one as I hate sex?! I've been away from them for quite some time and I don't miss it, I just feel the best when alone in my room with my Peace Lilly. No more skype in my future.

Yeah, those thoughts do creep in when too much free time and I think there is nothing wrong with taking it day-by-day.

I'm glad your job keeps you busy and your presence here is cherished.

I'll never understand how these so-called loners get to the point of reproducing. What a paradox.

I tried mIRC a very long time ago, just out of curiosity, was in elementary school period, didn't stay there, only remember one short convo with someone that was just messing around. If there was more, it must have been even more pointless so not worth memorizing.

Dating sites? What are those (rhetoric question) ? I know a place on Reddit where loners who would like to be with someone vent. Sad, that situation is one of many forms of suffering.

I only use Skype to annoy my co-workers, haha.

While job keeps me busy, I'd prefer something more pleasant in its place, but what can ya' do?

 

Edited February 13, 2023 by UCyborg

[mina7601]

42 minutes ago, UCyborg said:

I only use Skype to annoy my co-workers, haha.

LOL! 

[D.Draker]

13 hours ago, jaclaz said:

Good morning, y'all.

jaclaz

Good morning to you too, jaclaz, always a pleasure to hear from you !

Sorry for the huge delay, I don't visit this topic often.

[D.Draker]

5 hours ago, legacyfan said:

I'm doing good! and my computer gets here sometime around 10-12 tommorow and it valentines day

Well, your girlfriend must be so cool, I only got a postcard and chocolate from my GF, while you got the whole PC on valentine's day !

[legacyfan]

5 minutes ago, D.Draker said:

Well, your girlfriend must be so cool, I only got a postcard and chocolate from my GF, while you got the whole PC on valentine's day !

I don't have a girlfriend yet (but someday I might)😉

[D.Draker]

4 hours ago, UCyborg said:

I'll never understand how these so-called loners get to the point of reproducing

I can't call myself a "loner", I'm just extremely picky when it comes to choosing whom I'm going to be dating.

I even need her to have a voice like a singer. Too much trouble to find a good one who would fit my tastes these days.

Also her parents would need to be dead, preferably a long time ago, yet she needs to be young (no more than 20).

I hate interacting with parents.

[D.Draker]

3 hours ago, legacyfan said:

I don't have a girlfriend yet (but someday I might)😉

Sorry, I assumed you did, because you mentioned valentin's. Sorry again. I'm sure you will !

[NotHereToPlayGames]

43 minutes ago, D.Draker said:

Also her parents would need to be dead, preferably a long time ago, yet she needs to be young (no more than 20).

Sounds like a very VERY tiny intersection.  Like somebody whose mother died while giving birth and whose father died in a car crash or drug overdose.

I was well into my 50s when my parents both passed within a year of each other.  None of my siblings are anywhere near "no more than 20".

You may want to cast a wider net.  Or just admit you prefer living single.

[XPerceniol]

36 minutes ago, NotHereToPlayGames said:

Sounds like a very VERY tiny intersection.  Like somebody whose mother died while giving birth and whose father died in a car crash or drug overdose.

I was well into my 50s when my parents both passed within a year of each other.  None of my siblings are anywhere near "no more than 20".

You may want to cast a wider net.  Or just admit you prefer living single.

I prefer to be single.

[XPerceniol]

1 hour ago, legacyfan said:

I don't have a girlfriend yet (but someday I might)😉

I think you will. Hope you run into the right girl when you are ready.

[D.Draker]

4 hours ago, NotHereToPlayGames said:

Sounds like a very VERY tiny intersection.  Like somebody whose mother died while giving birth and whose father died in a car crash or drug overdose.

I was well into my 50s when my parents both passed within a year of each other.  None of my siblings are anywhere near "no more than 20".

You may want to cast a wider net.  Or just admit you prefer living single.

I currently have a girlfriend (born in 1996), met her in 2014, she came to my luxury city 'cause she wanted to be a model and she really did get quite some modelling with several famous French brands, also she was able to get a proper education in that area. Her father is absent (not sure what happened, I always forget, was he hit by a train or simply left?) . 

Now with the help of simple arithmetics, she is 27. Kinda old, so I'm keeping my options open since approx. 2018.

Anyways ! Thanks for your concern !

[NotHereToPlayGames]

5 hours ago, D.Draker said:

Thanks for your concern !

I can assure you that it was not "concern".  

[msfntor]

12 hours ago, legacyfan said:

I don't have a girlfriend yet (but someday I might)😉

And to make it easier to meet your girlfriend: Get off the Internet and go outside!

[msfntor]

10 hours ago, D.Draker said:

she is 27. Kinda old, so I'm keeping my options open since approx. 2018.

More like a child...almost

[NotHereToPlayGames]

No clue how old Mr. D.Draker is.  But all I'm hearing here is "ego" or something.  He always struck me as low 30s so dating a 27yr old seems about right.  But now I'm wondering if he's mid 20s and dating somebody older but looking for somebody younger.  So is the post about dating a 27yr old some sort of "brag" for dating somebody older?  How are we to read it?  Unsure as I would personally never put that sort of detail on MSFN.  This is not Facebook, lol, and I don't do Facebook.  I certainly hope he's not in his 40s and posting that he's looking for a 20yr old.  Another "brag"?  Who knows, to each their own.  Which I guess leaves him perhaps in his 20s and not liking that his current girlfriend is older and more mature, so he's looking for somebody 20, younger, and less mature than himself.  But post that on MSFN?  Again, this isn't Facebook.  And I'm very very confused by the "her parents need to be dead" comment.  A 20yr old whose parents are dead, her parents died "tragically", not of "old age" or "natural causes", but *tragically*.  And to have been dead a "very long time" would have put that future girlfriend where, 6yrs old, 10yrs old, 15yrs old?  Very very "formative" years in one's "upbringing" to go through the pain of tragically losing her parents.

 

But yeah, my "left brain" is taking over and being far too "analytical" for some "blurb" regarding a 27yr old girlfriend that doesn't fit the bill, that a 20yr old would be better suited, and that the 20yr old had better not have any surviving parents trying to "parent" the new boyfriend.

 

I guess this is just what the "Funny Farm" is all about, I don't really trek down here too often.