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[mina7601]

12 hours ago, msfntor said:

1- No, not. Why negative, not positive, not entertaining these bad times to you?..

2- So to be able to go out in bad weather (very entertaining, I assure you!..) - we dress according to the weather, that's all. Better shoes, a warmer parka, extra underwear... and don't forget the headgear... and don't cry when the weather is bad, but be happy that there is something new! 

1- Yes, these times aren't entertaining to me.

2- Yes, I already know that we dress according to the weather. Also, something new like what exactly? And as for the weather part, I am sad because it's the reason I was unable to go outside.

11 hours ago, msfntor said:

Mina ... Wake up! Act!

I am not asleep though, I am awake.

11 hours ago, msfntor said:

Mina: come out of your hole and be open to the world, it's time.

Well, I am not relaxed with living in my country, I wish to get out of it ASAP (you wouldn't really want to know how worse my country has went over the years), and stay in your country France, I will then feel better by a lot, and I mean, A LOT.

5 hours ago, XPerceniol said:

We'll get there and I KNOW you will dig yourself out of thie hole. Me, I think its too late and I'm too far gone and too old to change from being ultra loner city. I'm a sqaure peg.

Well, thank you for the hopes, but, you shouldn't also feel pessimistic.

5 hours ago, XPerceniol said:

1- I don't hate myself though,

2- there are things I wish I could change some things but overall nothing. 

1- So do I.

2- Same here.

Edited February 12, 2023 by mina7601

[mina7601]

1 hour ago, UCyborg said:

@mina7601
Should've figured...

Not a problem though.

Edited February 12, 2023 by mina7601

[mina7601]

1 hour ago, UCyborg said:

may not know how to respond in certain cases.

Couldn't agree more on this.

[legacyfan]

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Edited February 12, 2023 by legacyfan

[legacyfan]

the post above is for both of you @mina7601 & @XPerceniol hope it helps yall

[mina7601]

1 hour ago, XPerceniol said:

Maybe when you graduate and head to college you will have better luck finding like-minded people. High school is tough unless you are a carbon copy of each other because everyone is trying to "fit in" and I was (and always will be) a misfit. Welcome to the misfit city central.

I'm not trying to be a carbon copy, actually. Also, yes, as you said, I might have some luck finding better people when I graduate soon.

[XPerceniol]

I think you will. 

[msfntor]

14 hours ago, mina7601 said:

Well, I am not relaxed with living in my country, I wish to get out of it ASAP (you wouldn't really want to know how worse my country has went over the years), and stay in your country France, I will then feel better by a lot, and I mean, A LOT.

The best solution for you would be to finish your studies (you have to have your diploma!) and come here, perhaps to Paris...

[UCyborg]

17 hours ago, XPerceniol said:

Maybe when you graduate and head to college you will have better luck finding like-minded people. High school is tough unless you are a carbon copy of each other because everyone is trying to "fit in" and I was (and always will be) a misfit.

I had better luck in high school (until it fell apart, I will say it was nice 'till it lasted). There was no one in college. But then I'm also unapproachable, tend to stick to some corner to be on my own, have big doubts about trusting others and finally, just don't appear at the right places (and at the right times).

I also avoid social media (Facebook/Twitter kind). I remember bit of high school when the reason I made FB account was to be in the group with classmates for an occasion someone posted something useful for exams. Back then that site at least made more sense design-wise (later they just implemented mobile design on the desktop, everything was so big, zoomed-in and...no idea what's it like today). But besides that group where I lurked, I was like: "The heck am I supposed to be doing here?" I only remember people there posting all kind of random stuff.

Nowadays job keeps me busy for the most part, but these thoughts still creep-in in free time. Currently, I just live with them 'cause what am I supposed to do? I just continue to do whatever I feel confident about, which isn't much, but I have to get through the day somehow.

Edited February 12, 2023 by UCyborg

[legacyfan]

I made a new topic 

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Edited February 12, 2023 by legacyfan

[msfntor]

1 hour ago, legacyfan said:

the US is a great country as well if you  know what states to live and not to live in from what ive seen florida & texas are the two states people are moving to here and you should avoid California at all costs its a giant mess now and should be avoided at all costs (for safety reasons)

I am aware of this, but I have never visited California or the USA... so other people who live outside the USA must also be aware... but we are not discussing politics here.

Edited February 12, 2023 by msfntor

[mina7601]

1 hour ago, legacyfan said:

the US is a great country as well if you  know what states to live and not to live in from what ive seen florida & texas are the two states people are moving to here and you should avoid California at all costs its a giant mess now and should be avoided at all costs (for safety reasons)

I am very aware of US as well. it's also another country I love like France.

[legacyfan]

(update) my computer has been delayed a little but is still planned to get here on the 14 (as long as nothing else happens)

Edited February 12, 2023 by legacyfan

[msfntor]

Yes to not blame anyone I've edited my post, thanks!

 

 

Edited February 12, 2023 by msfntor

[msfntor]

PS. Could you edit your post  and delete this same thing from my quote, please? Thanks!