legacyfan Posted January 6, 2023 Share Posted January 6, 2023 3 minutes ago, XPerceniol said: Absolutely ... I'm with you all the way and we can lean on each other during rough times and then, when you are energetic (not that your are not already) you can build up others and I will do the same. You WILL succeed I guarantee it and I feel so glad you are "getting good" and I like that choice of wording. And old dear DD friend used to always say, you'll do good and we'd laugh but that was so right. Do well, of course, you might be unaware of the old saying: Do what you do - do well. In other words.. Do (what you do) what you do (whatever that is to you) do (just do it) (and do it) Well. We've got this and don't get discouraged when you find yourself in a dark spot because that is all its is just a spot as with good and bright spots; you can't see the light unless you recognize the dark, find the balance and sail (Just like @UCyborg) we are in rough waters; always. Unsteady world so we keep afloat and go with the current but always keep the shore in sights. I know (without question) you will find this contentment, try to avoid seeking the happiness trap and look for contentment. You ARE a very good person and your purpose has not even be (fully) discovered yet, so stay tuned, and over the next few years after graduation you'll being to find your footing and your life will present itself and (if I can be so bold) your agoraphobia will also gradually start to turn away form fears and anxiety and into excitement. I'm excited for you, now I need to lift myself away from *known* triggers as I did today and I got off the couch and up in the shower and dressed with turned off the toxic news. 😉😉😉😉😉 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XPerceniol Posted January 6, 2023 Author Share Posted January 6, 2023 (edited) Oh and just in case some are not aware of what "DD" means, dearly departed. Edited January 6, 2023 by XPerceniol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mina7601 Posted January 6, 2023 Share Posted January 6, 2023 11 minutes ago, XPerceniol said: Oh and just in case some are not aware of what "DD" means, dearly departed. Thank you for your explanation. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UCyborg Posted January 6, 2023 Share Posted January 6, 2023 (edited) 20 hours ago, XPerceniol said: May I ask you guys something strange? Well everything I say is strange already without trying. Haa But its been causing me anxiety and sadness lately and I just keep it to myself not even tell my therapist. How do guys deal with bad memories or the feelings that you've let others down? Maybe I'm just trying to see if I"m alone, but I feel I am, actually, but recently I became aware that I also sense vibes so I'm not alone but its rare to find in real life let alone online. I know this didn't make much sense, but there is no way to put it. I feel like I've let people down when they needed me the very most. For the most part, people were not there for me and all too easily turned their backs on me when I needed them the most, but I expect that from people now so I never get let down anymore. I don't trust people and may likely never will. I don't mind hearing from a younger perspective or father figure perspective if my posting even make a ounce of sense at all. I'm just now picking myself up from a deep sadness from today, nothing to do with forums or here. Maybe I'll try to write more later as its almost 7:20 PM and and dinner was terrible and I just feel so lost and even green tea didn't help. Do I deal with it? If you can call it "dealing with it", I try to comfort my mind with this thought: Funny thing, I only watched The Matrix in recent times, well, about 3,5 years ago actually. Either way, I don't think you're alone. Are you thinking about past friendships and how they've ended? If something lacked on both sides or just one side? 11 hours ago, msfntor said: 44,415,533 abortions just last year. I read that as 44,415,533 unwanted people spared from the burden of existence. Things are rough as they are and being a resented child is not good for either party. That said, I think it's better to prevent the situation that makes the abortion the only remaining option. Edited January 6, 2023 by UCyborg Wording 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
msfntor Posted January 6, 2023 Share Posted January 6, 2023 (edited) 1 hour ago, UCyborg said: 12 hours ago, msfntor said: 44,415,533 abortions just last year. I read that as 44,415,533 unwanted people spared from the burden of existence. Things are rough as they are and being a resented child is not good for either party. That said, I think it's better to prevent the situation that makes the abortion the only remaining option. Well, you think that unwanted people could be killed... dead... that's "an option". Hommes already kill unwanted people in the wars too... Not so good, what do you think...I't's NOT an option valable to kill the others, I think... But men are vicious, and have been killing others since Kain and Abel... I don't share the same opinion, that it is allowed to kill someone else for any reason. I have respect for life, the lives of people - and animals too. Wolves, lynxes, spiders, ants.... all have the right to life. Killing individuals of the same species is a total and unnatural perversion, only human ideologies and madness lead to this. See Nazism (national socialists), communism.... The Second World War was the deadliest military conflict in history. In total, more than 60 million people were killed, both civilians and soldiers, during six years. Here, we are talking about 44.42 million killed during only one year. The innocent, the defenseless. This is inhumane, cruel, deviant, unacceptable under any circumstances. Edited January 6, 2023 by msfntor 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
legacyfan Posted January 6, 2023 Share Posted January 6, 2023 (edited) 3 minutes ago, msfntor said: Well, you think that unwanted people could be killed... dead... that's "an option". Hommes already kill unwanted people in the wars too... Not so good, what do you think...I't's NOT an option valable to kill the others, I think... But men are vicious, and have been killing others since Kain and Abel... I don't share the same opinion, that it is allowed to kill someone else for any reason. I have respect for life, the lives of people - and animals too. Wolves, lynxes, spiders, ants.... all have the right to life. Killing individuals of the same species is a total and unnatural perversion, only human ideologies and madness lead to this. See Nazism (national socialists), communism.... The Second World War was the deadliest military conflict in history. In total, more than 60 million people were killed, both civilians and soldiers, during six years. Here, we are talking about 44.42 million killed during only one year. The innocent, the defenseless. C'est inhumain, cruel, deviant, inacceptable en toutes circonstances. texas actually put in laws the past few years against this (and where apparently one of the first states in america to do so) Edited January 6, 2023 by legacyfan 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mina7601 Posted January 6, 2023 Share Posted January 6, 2023 (edited) 1 hour ago, UCyborg said: I try to comfort my mind with this thought: Yeah, me too. 25 minutes ago, msfntor said: This is inhumane, cruel, deviant, unacceptable under any circumstances. Completely agreed! I even have respect for lions too. Edited January 6, 2023 by mina7601 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
msfntor Posted January 6, 2023 Share Posted January 6, 2023 13 minutes ago, mina7601 said: 38 minutes ago, msfntor said: This is inhumane, cruel, deviant, unacceptable under any circumstances. Completely agreed! I even have respect for lions too. haha, before all!..lol 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
legacyfan Posted January 6, 2023 Share Posted January 6, 2023 14 minutes ago, msfntor said: haha, before all!..lol agreed! 🦁 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UCyborg Posted January 7, 2023 Share Posted January 7, 2023 (edited) Comparing abortion to wars seems a bit insidious to me...so basically a fetus (undeveloped human) vs. fully grown, fully aware of the situation human going to the slaughter, returning with a PTSD if he makes it. You won't convince me that the turn of events in the U.S. was a step forward. https://vanderbilthustler.com/2022/06/24/tadross-abortion-is-more-than-a-debate-over-murder/ At the end of the day, every cradle is the grave. Life kills life, humans just happen to be more creative in that department. The game is rigged, there's no winner in this meat grinder. Edited January 7, 2023 by UCyborg 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XPerceniol Posted January 7, 2023 Author Share Posted January 7, 2023 (edited) Yeah, not just because I examine too hard, but, also, when one finds themselves at the mercy of others and services being supposedly offered to people struggling, that realization that we are a mere 'blip' in the air and not even a ripple in the waters unless the continuation (of) breading to where/which it ends with me. I am the only male left and I planned to make sure its ends with me. My father accepted me in the end and my mother is in full dementia now and I'm just existing and (sorry to be depressing) but I feel people with grandiosity with self absorbed delusions of self-worth are just that - deluded. Sorry guys, going to write in pieces to better explain so need to reply and I'm sitting here alone (just the way I prefer it) and I'm fine. Well not fine, but if you were to ask me for dinner of coffee right now, I'd have to take a "rain check" and I need it this way. I was not meant to be a parent and I'm SO VERY glad I didn't make the awful mistake to continue with what I consider to be damaged goods from my side. Ugh, again, nothing is wrong other than I'm thinking about what society tells me I'm supposed to be according to others. No thanks ... not for me. Edited January 7, 2023 by XPerceniol 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XPerceniol Posted January 7, 2023 Author Share Posted January 7, 2023 Thank being said ... when you get the opportunity to (even if tiny spurts) grab them and run with it and take it because only YOU create your destiny. When you wallow in pity, you become pitiful and society will leave you on the streets. I have my DD Father to saving me. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
legacyfan Posted January 7, 2023 Share Posted January 7, 2023 good job @XPerceniol! very well said! 👏 abortions are bad and we need to find a way to stop them! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UCyborg Posted January 7, 2023 Share Posted January 7, 2023 (edited) @XPerceniol You know, it was really refreshing to me, discovering anti-natalist community on Reddit. Though I never engaged with them (not yet), being the reserved fella that I am...but it's like all brothers and sisters are there. Besides that it always seemed messed up playing God, that was lurking at the back of my mind for a long time, and the news you hear...I don't really feel good hearing somebody else has it worse than me, don't feel like YEAH, I HAVE IT BETTER THAN THAT PERSON... There was another influencing factor which touched me a lot personally...the fact they're chopping parts of babies'/children's genitals off and make million excuses for it. I'm not in position to be a parent either, but suppose working with children was my thing, had loads of money and a partner, adopting a child without a home would be a decent thing to do. Edited January 7, 2023 by UCyborg 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
msfntor Posted January 7, 2023 Share Posted January 7, 2023 (edited) 16 hours ago, UCyborg said: , adopting a child without a home would be a decent thing to do. Yep... I totally agree with this one. Edited January 7, 2023 by msfntor 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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