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I can't stand when neighbors used to have surround sound and sub-woofers ... so disrespectful to others, but thank heavens they moved out.

Yeah ... I followed @RainyShadow and this member was helpful when my hard drives was showing me errors and they were kind but I haven't seem in quite some time. I also wonder about @legacyfan as he offered us help with XP when we thought it was done-deal. I don't usually read other tech forums other than my other XP Forum but I don't them over there and that forum is really slow. Liz is super kind over there and even she asked where people are. https://www.xpforums.com/threads/no-problems.934685/ Honestly, I don't fit in anywhere at all online or in real life for that matter. Anxiety and support forums I put in the rear-view-mirror permanently. I'm not that helpful here but I try with limited knowledge.

Thank you, guys, I'll be fine today. No plans. I have general TV and will stay safe.

Awwww ... that is so nice :)

Name Basilisk Version 52.9.0 (32-bit) Serpent 52.9.0 (Roytam1)

I came across this today, while I realize this is no surprise to some, perhaps others may be unaware ... so here is the test along with pictures of: Mypal 68.12.5b and 360 V13.0.2170.0 builds. https://d3ward.github.io/toolz/units.html Good luck

As hopeless as I feel today, I can't even bring myself to dare to turn on the news

I also miss the senior members that used to post here when I got here. I don't visit other tech forums beside XP Forum and its quite slow over there.

My word I'm showing my age, because when you wrote about bewitched ... the first thing (lady) that came to mind was: Elizabeth Montgomery =P

Well ... I sort of see it this way, too. I mean, while I'd be killed over there, I'm not there.

That is why I have NEVER every tried a Ouija Board.

Please, though, use good quality headphones (Stereo, of course)

Anything is better and worth trying before dreaded medication. Let us know if it works for you. I've been asleep on the sofa for 4 hours and I feel dazed.

Glad to see you ... I sleep late and usually fall out of bed at 9AM. I wake up early but sit up worrying staring at the ceiling. Otherwise, I'm good.

This makes me happy to hear.

I know you mean well my friend and mina and I'll try, all I can say or promise.

I don't know how it started as you'd not believe it, I was once VERY social and had friends until they turned their backs on me and I gave up on people now and would rather focus on my peace Lilly and music and computers. Alone and lonely are not the same - just as solitude and solace are not.

I've visited (virtually) Pennsylvania and have even enjoyed pictures on my computer. I passed through when I was a child. I was born in Maine and left home at 19 to stay with friend in NY throughout the 90's; but the city and lifestyle was killing me and I wound up back here in New England when its quiet again. I mean, it was exciting ( to say the very least ) but I was born in 73 and now I enjoy the quiet and change of season. I do have family all over but I have no contact with them anymore. I never owned a Car so have to rely on others when they come by. I live now in disabled housing, and while its not what I'd hoped for, I'm happy overall as I don't see how people afford to support themselves ... sounds like you're doing well. Glad to have you here and hope you hear more

I hope you find my posting to be not toxic because that would be conflicted with your thread title. If so, please let me know and I'll remove. You know I'm not toxic, at least, not intentionally.

That being said: A lot of us because of experiences have a better edge to do just that [step outside of our own perspective to see others viewpoints] Those that are unable to agree to disagree will be closed off and shut down. But we are human and imperfect. Some in my lifetime were filled with hate because they didn't recognize it before it was too late, luckily I caught it. But I remember advice given to me and use it as a bad example. Should I feel alone then? Why, I don't now as I sit here. When people do come to my door I usually hide and I'm sad to have to say that because I suffer extreme social phobia and people stress me. I don't answer the door unless its planned beforehand.

No ... I have terrible opinion of myself and low self-esteem. But you are right and most of our (both) thoughts and feeling and experiences (for that matter) are ego based. What Is the Ego, and Why Is It So Involved in My Life? The concept of "ego" is among the most confusing in psychology. Posted May 13, 2019 | Reviewed by Jessica Schrader The term ego is as confusing as any in psychology. Not only is the word itself used to refer to several distinct psychological constructs and processes, but the psychological landscape is littered with concepts that include “ego” in one way or another—egotism, ego-defense, egocentrism, superego, ego-involved, and so on. But what does ego actually mean? What are we talking about when we refer to the ego? And what is the difference among all of the terms in which the term ego is embedded? Put simply, the English word "ego" is the Latin word for “I.” Literally translated, ego means “I.” (If you were writing “I love you” in Latin, you’d write ego amo te.) Use of “ego” crept into psychology mostly through the work of Sigmund Freud. In Freud’s theory, the ego is the part of the personality that arbitrates between the animalistic desires of the “id” and the moral and social standards of the “superego.” But, interestingly, the word, “ego” does not appear anywhere in Freud’s extensive writings. He never used it. Rather, ego was a translation of what Freud, writing in German, called "das Ich"—literally “the I." In essence, Freud was referring to that conscious, decision-making part of you that you regard as “I,” as when you say “I dislike my mother” or "I decided to change jobs" or “I dreamt that my house was on fire last night.” That is your I, your ego. So, most terms that include “ego” involve processes or reactions in which I, me, or mine figure prominently. Consider egoism, the motive to act in one’s self-interest. Someone who is behaving egoistically is simply pursuing his or her own goals, as we all do. A motive is egoistic when it’s focused on what “I” want. Source: Mark Leary Or, consider egocentrism. Egocentrism has also been used in a number of ways over the years, but it comes down to perceiving the world and interpreting events from your personal vantage point. We are all inherently egocentric in that we can never break free from either our physical vantage point (I can perceive the world only from my physical location in space) or our personal, psychological perspective that is influenced by our experiences, goals, beliefs, identities, preferences, and biases. People differ in the degree to which they can step outside their own perspective to see things from others’ viewpoints, but we’re all locked into our own egocentric viewpoint because there's no way for us to process information except from our personal frame of reference. Egotism is another common ego-word in psychology. Egotism involves evaluating oneself more favorably than is objectively warranted. Just as we are all egoistic and egocentric, we also tend to be egotistical as well. Thousands of studies show that people are biased to view themselves too positively. Perhaps the broadest ego-based term, egoic, is also the least common, although it is coming into vogue. Egoic simply means “pertaining to ego” or “pertaining to I.” Egoic thoughts, motives, emotions, and behaviors are reactions in which I, me, and mine take center stage. An egoic reaction is one in which I am centrally involved. Much of the time, people’s thoughts, motives, emotions, and behaviors are infused with themselves, with their I. They are thinking consciously about what they want, what they are doing, who they are, what other people think about them, and how things are going for them. In these situations, people are being egoic; they are highly self-absorbed, and their reactions are all about them. article continues after advertisement At other times, people’s thoughts, motives, emotions, and behaviors don’t involve much ego, not much I. When you’re engrossed in a good book, working on an engaging task, having a comfortable conversation, or are in a flow experience, your “I” has receded into the background. You are responding automatically without much conscious self-related thought, and you are not currently concerned about who you are, what you want, or the implications of events for your personal interests and well-being. In these kinds of situations, your responses are not dominated by I or about thoughts of me or mine. We might say that you are being low in egoicism or “hypo-egoic.” Note that egoic has nothing to do with being egotistical. Egotistical people may certainly be egoic, but highly self-critical people may be egoic as well. People who view themselves very negatively, as highly depressed people often do, are often highly focused on themselves and, thus, quite egoic. These terms—egoism, egocentrism, egotism, and egoicism (and their adjectival forms: egoistic, egocentric, egotistical, and egoic)—are easy to confuse. But they refer to different, though sometimes related, ways in which our ego (our focus on "I") can influence our thoughts, motives, emotions, and behaviors. (((((((((((((((((((((((((( Some of us believe (myself included) in death and when we leave this level of consciousness, in the next realm life would be without ego or raw emotion(s)

Some people are afraid to have silence and to be alone, and I wonder why? I love peace and quiet and I enjoy my own company :)

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