@XtremeMaC- His age? He has this in his previous posts....(see member's all posts). Let's see if he wants to really reveal those details here - ya might like to give customized advice (as you already have). @mazin calm down, he just seems to have got the feeling that you were against him - the language barrier you know.... - what we mean to be good-hearted fun starts to look offensive.... @rupert86 What exactly do you want out of discussion in this thread? :S You want to "patao" her, or do you want to know what might be the things happening happening behind the scenes (in her mind) ? Or anything else? calm down ... Also, all these _large_ replies you see to your post, aren't here to make fun of you/anybody. Just look around the forums and see - not many topics/people have such large replies as this topic has. We are all your friends, and are only trying to help you. I suppose the reason you posted your query here, in the first place, was to know from others' knowledge/experience as to what the situation (in regard to her) really is. So each member is giving well-meaning advice to you, which you shouldn't interpret as insults or anything....