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i use outlook for its calendar and scheduling. If it didn't have that i would use Thunderbird. I say lets merge Sunbird and Thunderbird together to kill outlook as well as IE!!!
this means you can use your ide hard disk. SATA is way better than IDE (150Mbit/s vs 130Mbit/s) and will only getter better with SATA2. As for the fan connections see if the asus site lets u view the manual for the motherboard, it will tell you.
go to www.lvllord.de to get a fix that u can set the number of half-connections open at any one time. Default is 50 and should be enough to still stop worms propogating but still stop you from getting this warning.