Try old, but good SATA AHCI Controller 11.2.0.1006 by Intel, it is not storport-based, so even kernel patch not required. Probably it has problems with proper shutdowning SSD, it missed specific SSD (DIPM/HIPM) power commands
With anyhing, sleeping is always bugged on XP, there is no cure and no knowledge what's wrong, i have same problem with my notebook(ivybridge, 2013, no need any patches for ACPI), in 80% i have blank screen and only in 20% succesfully power on