RiverCityOffice

I have been using Outlook 2003's Organize function to color code messages from co-workers, bosses, etc. This worked fine until two of those people got married: Now, Outlook tries to put the *same* color on both of them, even though I explicitly tell it to Organize the husband with one color and the wife with another. Apparently, it doesn't look past the common last name to the other Contact attributes - even first names. Anyone else seen this? Have a fix?